My Therapeutic Approach
Trauma-informed · Evidence-based · Tailored to you
Therapy with me is a collaborative process. We start where you are, build a plan that respects your pace, and integrate the modalities that fit what you need (such as CBT, ERP, DBT, ACT, and/or EMDR), all delivered through a trauma-informed lens. Below you can read about the shape of our work together, the therapy modalities I draw on, and answers to common questions.
My Approach
I am passionate about supporting people to build the lives they want for themselves, no matter where you are starting. Those who work with me can expect to feel understood, validated, and have someone on their side to walk through challenging experiences.
My approach involves asking questions and listening deeply to understand you, sharing information to help you understand your experiences from another perspective, identifying your unique strengths, offering strategies to help you navigate challenges, and exploring your values to help you build the life you want to live.
I integrate various therapeutic modalities based on what works best for you, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), and trauma-informed care.
Together we will create a therapy environment that supports you to meet your goals.
Explore & Understand
Gently unpack your thoughts, feelings, and experiences to gain deeper insight.
Heal & Process
Create a safe space to work through challenging events, emotions, and patterns.
Build & Grow
Develop effective coping strategies, foster resilience, and build upon your inherent strengths.
Align & Thrive
Move towards a life that feels authentic and aligned with your personal values.
Our Work Together: Evidence-Based Practices
I draw from several therapy methods that are well-researched and evidence-based. We shape the approach around what you need, which may include:
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
To work with your mind to process stuck experiences and memories from the past.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
To identify and shift unhelpful thought patterns and behaviours.
Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP)
To take back your mind from worry, doubt, intrusive thoughts, and automatic behaviours.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
To help you clarify your values and build a life that feels meaningful.
Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT)
Learn strategies to handle intense emotions, improve relationships, and manage stress.
Gottman Method Couples Therapy
To give couples tools to improve communication, manage conflict, and build intimacy.
About the methodologies
Plain-language explanations of the therapies I draw on, and how I decide what fits.
What is EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)?
EMDR is an evidence-based therapy developed for trauma. While you focus on a memory, your therapist guides bilateral stimulation (eye movements, buzzers, or sounds) that help your brain reprocess the memory. When memories are processed, they don't feel as triggering. You keep your memories and all the feelings that make sense. You leave behind the fear of the memories themselves and the beliefs about yourself/the world that don't fit for you anymore. EMDR doesn't ask you to talk through every detail (top-down processing); it works with how the memory lives in your nervous system (bottom-up processing). EMDR can also be used to assist with concerns like anxiety, depression, stress, and more.
What is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)?
CBT is a therapy that examines the link between thoughts, feelings, and behaviours. Together we identify patterns of thinking that fuel anxiety, depression, or stuck behaviours, and we build new responses. CBT is one of the most studied forms of therapy and has strong evidence for anxiety, depression, and many other concerns. I also use Exposure and Response Prevention therapy (ERP), which was adapted from CBT to address anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder.
What is Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)?
DBT was originally developed for emotional intensity and self-harm patterns and has since been adapted for anxiety, trauma, and relationship struggles. It blends acceptance with change. Building skills in mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. We use DBT-informed skills when they fit, not the full DBT method.
What is Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)?
ACT helps you make room for the difficult thoughts and feelings that come with being human while moving toward what matters to you. Instead of trying to delete uncomfortable inner experiences, ACT teaches you to notice them, hold them lightly, and act in line with your values anyway. It's especially useful when trying to "fix" thoughts hasn't worked.
What does "trauma-informed care" mean?
Trauma-informed care is a way of working, not a single technique. We do the work that you choose, at your pace, within a relationship that is authentic and safe. It means therapy is paced to your nervous system, prioritizes safety and choice, recognizes how past experiences shape present reactions, and avoids approaches that can be too intense or even make things feel worse.
How do you choose which approach to use with me?
We start with what you're bringing in, what you've already tried, and what feels right to you. I share what I think might fit and why, and we agree on a plan together. Most therapy with me blends modalities in a way that supports you as an individual. I generally lean into neuroscience, cognitive behavioural therapy, and trauma-informed practice to understand our inner worlds. Then, I pull strategies from ACT, DBT, EFT, ERP, and EMDR depending on what makes the most sense for you.
Will we use just one method, or several?
Almost always several. People are not one thing, and neither is therapy. The plan we build is shaped by your goals and adjusted as we go. If something isn't working, we say so and shift. That said, if you want to dive completely into EMDR or Exposure and Response Prevention therapy, then we do that.
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Explore the specific areas I focus on, or learn more about who's behind the practice.
Ready to Begin Your Journey?
Taking the first step toward therapy can feel daunting, but you don't have to do it alone. I'm here to support you every step of the way.
I offer both in-person sessions in Kelowna and secure online therapy sessions for clients throughout British Columbia. Contact me today to schedule a consultation and learn more about how we can work together.
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